No right or wrong—choose what feels right, and I'll capture every moment!

Still unsure? Let’s  discuss what fits your vision!

Final Thoughts

Pay attention to your nerves and emotions.

Wedding day jitters are totally normal! If you’re the type who feels anxious before a crowd, a first look can help ease some of those nerves. Seeing each other beforehand can be a grounding and calming—a quick second that lets you breathe a little easier before the day’s festivities begin.

4. Are You Feeling Super Nervous?

If you are getting ready, having the ceremony, and hosting your reception at different locations, a first look can help you make the most of your time. Travel between venues eats up more of the day than you might expect, and setting aside time for portraits earlier means fewer interruptions later.

Less rushing, more celebrating! 🎉

3. Are You Traveling Between Locations?

Some couples hesitate because of the old superstition that it’s bad luck to see each other before the ceremony. But times have changed! First looks are so common now that they could almost be considered the new tradition.

At the end of the day, your wedding should reflect your priorities—so if tradition matters to you, honor it! But if you're open to a first look, know that it’s an option many couples embrace today.

2. Are You Worried About Tradition?

If your schedule is packed, a first look can be a great way to make the most of your time together. Instead of spending most of the day apart before the ceremony, you get to share a quiet, intimate moment beforehand—often in a secluded, beautifully staged setting.

And let’s be real… You get to kiss a little sooner, too! 💋

1. Do You Have a Tight Timeline?

Some photographers are very adamant about first looks, and it’s easy to see why—they free up time for portraits and give you extra moments together. But here’s the thing: I will never pressure my couples into doing something they don’t truly want.

In fact, my husband and I skipped the first look on our wedding day!

To help you decide what’s best, let’s walk through a few key considerations before you completely nix the idea.

4 Things to Consider

Should We Do a First Look?